How To Be Confident In Any Situation
1. RELAXED BODY LANGUAGE:
WHY: It helps other people relax and builds up your confidence.
HOW: Spread yourself out comfortably. Move yourself freely. Have eye contact when making an important point.
2. BE NON-REACTIVE:
WHY: If you are non-reactive that shows you are not pressured by what's happening and your in control. Feeling your feelings is important but left unchecked they can get in the way.
HOW: Simply don't react, stay silent under pressure, pause, and breath. Give yourself time to think before you react.
3. DON'T TRY TO CONVINCE OTHER PEOPLE:
WHY: It helps you be persuasive.
HOW: Frame yourself as an equal partner. Be willing to walk away. Looks like we are not a match, I wish you the best.
4. BELIEVE THAT YOU WILL BE OK:
WHY: Being confident is not about looking cool, always saying the right thing, or getting people to respond to you in a favorable way. Being confident let's you live your life the way you want, knowing that you will be OK.
HOW: Live your life the way you want. Life's too short not too.